The secret of letting go

Where Most People Struggle with Letting Go

Many people jump into the Law of Attraction and fully commit to using it…for a few days. They expect to see results instantly.

But within a week, they start thinking negatively, wondering why they aren't seeing results, wondering what they're doing wrong… Feelings of desperation, hopelessness, doubt, and fear creep in.

They'll go back and try some more with the Law of Attraction, alternating between hoping to see results and moments of negativity, fear and doubt.

They're so attached to their desire that they forget to let go.

What is Letting Go?

Letting go is being detached from the outcome.

Letting go isn't that you stop asking.

Letting go is getting out of your own way and allowing the Law of Attraction to bring you your desire. You release all emotional attachments, negative thoughts, and tension in your body. You are content with your life and know that your desire is coming to you.

How to Let Go

Letting go is unlearning what you've learned since childhood. It's no longer worrying about your family, your job, your house, your relationship, your health, and everything else in your life.

Everything in your life that you want to change, everywhere you think you need to compete with others, everywhere you think you need to be the best, stop worrying about it.

The more you worry about them, the more problems you attract.

When you release all worry and trust in the Universe (or Source or God, if you prefer), you will find true abundance, joy, health, love, success, and prosperity. You will achieve vibrational alignment with your desires.

Letting go involves changing how you think. Instead of going through life focused on the physical world around you, you focus on your spirit.

You release all control and remain open to possibilities. You allow things to happen in your life easily and naturally.

Reasons to Let Go and Move On

Someone’s negativity is rubbing off on you.

You are the average of the people you spend the most time with.  In other words, who you spend your time with has a great impact on the person you are and the person you become.  If you are around cynical and negative people all the time, you will become cynical and negative.

You have grown apart from someone. 

  Sad but true, no matter what you do or how much you explain yourself, some people will gradually evolve away from your core values.  As time goes on they will prove over and over again that they are committed to misunderstanding you and clashing with your needs.

You are truly unhappy with your current circumstances.

 It’s always better to be struggling at something you love than succeeding diligently at something you despise.  (Read Quitter.)

Your goals and needs have changed.

What was right for you then is not necessarily right for you now.  Sometimes the hardest part isn’t letting go but rather realizing that you have changed, and then learning to start over with your new truth.

Fear is holding you back.

Part of letting go and moving on is facing the fears and disappointments of the past that are binding your spirit.

You catch yourself living in the past.

 If all you do is attempt to relive something that has already happened, you’re missing out.  The mental space you create by letting go of things that are already behind you gives you the ability to fill the space with something fresh and fun.

 An old grudge is still hurting you.

 Holding on to the weight of anger, resentment and hatred will not only hold you back, but also block your present blessings and opportunities.  You’ve just got to drop some things to move forward.