Things to do to win any woman over

Just take a look at the last few people you’ve dated. What’s the commonality? Are they all projects that needed your fixing? If so, there’s likely a deep-rooted insecurity that causes you to seek validation and worthiness by rescuing people. Were your exes needy and leaving you feeling constantly suffocated? Perhaps you have an avoidant attachment style whereby you crave intimacy and connection, but subconsciously push people away when they get too close.

These are the ways you can win her over

- Text her first with a message that says more than just, “hey.”

- Instead of complimenting her on her legs, compliment her on an aspect of her personality.

- Touch her in a non-invasive spot, like the shoulder, and if she’s receptive, you can gradually touch her more and more.

- Shake her hand after you introduce yourself to show you’re a gentleman.

- If you’re sitting while she’s standing in a crowded bus or bar, offer your chair to her. 

-Ask her questions about herself, but not the boring ones like, “How was your weekend?”

-Act like you like yourself. Confidence matters.

- Stare into her eyes as she’s talking. But let her catch you checking her out later on. 

- Give her a massage.

- Stay far, far away from pick-up lines.

- Like her selfies.

-Don’t talk about other girls.

- Don’t look at other girls.

- Whenever she says something negative about herself, give her a compliment.

- Text her at all different times of the day. If you’re always texting at night, she’ll get the wrong idea. Plus, women love good morning texts.

- Don’t immediately try to make the conversation sexual.

- Let her borrow your jacket when she’s cold.

- When you hug her, make sure you don’t let go too quickly.

-If you invite her over, clean up your apartment before she gets there. Create the illusion that you’re a responsible adult.

 - Tell her how much you like her, so she’s not left guessing how you feel.

-Don’t forget about showing her how smart you are. Initiate a conversation about a topic you’re knowledgable about, so you can look intelligent.

-When she sits down on a couch or a bench, sit right next to her instead of on the other end.

- If another guy looks at her, it’s okay if she realizes you’re jealous, but don’t let her see you get pissed. It’s a turn-off.

-When you have food (or gum) with you, offer her some.

- Tease her–but playfully. In a way that lets her know you aren’t seriously being mean to her.

- Introduce her to your dog, if you have any. 

- Give her a cute nickname. Not “baby” or “honey.” Something personalized.

-Say what you mean and mean what you say. Don’t waste her time with mixed signals.

-Ask her to dance.

- Remember pointless little things about her, like her favorite cereal and her father’s name. 

- When she catches you staring, smile at her, so she doesn’t get creeped out.

-Introduce her to your friends and to your parents.

-When you ask her out, don’t invite her over to watch movie. Invite her to an actual diner where you can have an actual conversation.