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Are you caught in the turbulence of an unstable relationship? Relationships can be incredibly rewarding, providing love, support, and companionship. However, sometimes they can also become unpredictable and chaotic, leaving you feeling unsure and emotionally drained. In this article, we will explore effective strategies to handle an unstable relationship and find a path towards stability and happiness. Signs of an Unstable Relationship Recognizing the signs of an unstable relationship is the first step towards finding a solution. These signs can vary from constant arguments and disagreements to a lack of trust and emotional distance. If you find yourself constantly walking on eggshells or feeling anxious about the state of your relationship, it's important to address these issues head-on. One common sign of an unstable relationship is poor communication. When communication breaks down, misunderstandings and resentment can build up, leading to further instability. Another sign is a ...

According to their daughter, a couple celebrating their 81st wedding anniversary were told "it wouldn't last long." Ron and Joyce Bond, who live at Shenley Wood Retirement Village in Milton Keynes and are 102 and 100 years old respectively, are claimed to be the UK's longest-married couple. In January 1941, they married in Newport Pagnell, Buckinghamshire. Eileen, their daughter, stated: "At the time of their wedding, it was predicted that they would not last long. How far did people get it wrong?" Ron, from Blaina in Blaenau Gwent, and Joyce, from Bow Brickhill in Milton Keynes, met in Bletchley and married on a day when there was three inches of snow on the ground at Newport Pagnell Register Office. "There were lines of couples because Ron's section was being transported overseas to help in the war effort," Mrs Bond explained. The two agree that it was love at first sight and that their relationship is balanced. "In our partnership, ther...

  The first few days after being jilted surpassed in a blur of tears. My buddies had taken me back from the registry office to the residence and stayed with me night and day, taking it in turns to bring me tea and tissues while I cried the place down as my devoted dog refused to leave my side. As I lay in bed night after a sleepless night, I racked my brains questioning how could a man who’d had my name tattooed on his heart simply a day earlier leave me stranded at the altar, ending our relationship via text..... I felt more upset than I knew was possible. When the heart breaks, it breaks into one thousand pieces and I felt like mine would never mend. Eventually after a week of unanswered text messages and silence he called. Unable to get the words out of my mouth I just held the cellphone to my ear. It looks he felt the same due to the fact he was silent too. After what felt like hours but was probably seconds, I spoke: “Whatever you’re going to say, I deserve to hear it face to ...

  Do you regularly locate you date a lot, however she loses pastime and doesn’t prefer to see you again? Or that you do the whole thing you notion you have been supposed to, but she won’t return your texts or calls the subsequent day? Maybe you’re lacking a trick, and you want to study how to provoke a woman on a first date. First dates can be relatively nerve wrecking for anyone. How you begin out on a first date frequently units the tone for the entire relationship, so enter it geared up to galvanize her socks off. Ways To Win Her Over On A First Date As they say, first impressions count, and this is rather proper when it comes to dating. You may additionally have already met her in person, or per chance solely online, however it’s fundamental to get it proper when you first proper meet up if you desire to hold her interested. 1 . Show up on time:  Whether you’re selecting her up or assembly her somewhere, make positive to be punctual. No one likes any one who doesn’t troubl...

The ongoing National Identification Number (NIN) and Subscriber Identity Module (SIM) integration exercise has been extended by 8 weeks, with a new deadline of April 6, 2021. This message was conveyed by the Honorable Minister of Communication and Digital Economy, Dr. Isa Ali  Ibrahim during the meeting of the Ministerial Taskforce on NIN-SIM registration which held on the 1st of February 2021.  Dr. Pontami stated that the extension is to give Nigerians and legal residents more time to integrate their NIN with the sim. The meeting was chaired by the Honorable Minister and attended by key stakeholders, including the CEO of the Nigerian Communications Commission (NCC) of the National Identity Management commission (NIMC) of the National Information Technology Development Agency (NIDA) and the Chairman of the Association of Licensed Telecommunications Operations of Nigeria (ALTON). It was reported that a total of 56.18 million NINs have been collected by the mobile network operat...

Just take a look at the last few people you’ve dated. What’s the commonality? Are they all projects that needed your fixing? If so, there’s likely a deep-rooted insecurity that causes you to seek validation and worthiness by rescuing people. Were your exes needy and leaving you feeling constantly suffocated? Perhaps you have an avoidant attachment style whereby you crave intimacy and connection, but subconsciously push people away when they get too close. These are the ways you can win her over - Text her first with a message that says more than just, “hey.” - Instead of complimenting her on her legs, compliment her on an aspect of her personality. - Touch her in a non-invasive spot, like the shoulder, and if she’s receptive, you can gradually touch her more and more. - Shake her hand after you introduce yourself to show you’re a gentleman. - If you’re sitting while she’s standing in a crowded bus or bar, offer your chair to her.  -Ask her questions about herself,...

Love is one of the most profound emotions known to human beings. There are many kinds of love, but most people seek its expression in a romantic relationship with a compatible partner.  The ability to have a healthy, loving relationship is not innate. In the end there doesn't have to be anyone who understands you. There just has to be someone who wants to.  Fall in love with someone who makes you glad to be different.There is only one happiness in this life, to love and be loved. Most people are really skeptical about the relationship they are into. Are you anxious to know if you are with the right person at the moment? Find out now. Signs to know if you are in the right relationship You are happy Healthy relationships are full of laughter and fun. This doesn’t mean you’re giddy every hour of the day or that she doesn’t drive you up the wall sometimes but it does mean that your life together is mostly happy in sometimes simple ways.Whenever you are ar...

Touch him A lot of men want their women to be more physically active in bed -- starting with the hands.  ," says one Reddit user in the AskMen forum . He said this about his girlfriend "Sometimes she'll grab my neck and pull my hair if it's long enough. Ass-grabbing if you can reach. When I get closer to her she'll wrap her arms around my back and clench. Makes me feel good and helps me think that I'm doing something right."  Relationships work best when we break down these societal differences and get into what we really want in bed: trust, closeness, and pleasure. Learning what he wants in bed will give us equal time to explore what we also want in the bedroom. After all, giving leads the way to getting.  Initiate it more Men don't always want to be the one to initiate intercourse. When men have to initiate every time, it makes them feel less desirable and can give them performance anxiety.  Whisper in his ear how badly you ...

When a man is truly into a woman, his brain becomes a recording device for certain phrases that trigger his attraction, prime his ego, or make him feel masculine and sexy. 1. Men want to feel able to protect you It’s not about how big his biceps are, it’s about how much he feels he can take care of you. Maybe that sounds a little weird, but basically, even if a guy knows that you’re more than capable of taking care of everything in your own life, he still loves to hear you say to him, “I feel so safe around you,” or “you really know how to take care of me”.   2.Compliments that show that you believe in him   One of the biggest things that makes a guy melt is when his partner supports him and believes in him.  Examples: – I believe in you. – I love how driven you are. – Whatever you put your mind to, I know you’ll be able to achieve it. You always have. – Of course you got a raise/that new job. You’re talented, hard working, and...

Depression drains your energy, hope and drive, making it difficult to do what you need  to feel better. Feeling better takes time, but you can get there if you make it positive choices for yourself each day. What to do to avoid  depression: * Reach out and stay connected with people When you are depressed, the tendency is to withdraw and isolate. Even reach out to family and friends can be tough. But social support is absolutely essential to depression recovery. Make sure you reach out and stay connected to supportive people. * Do things you like doing Do things that makes you feel good even when you don't feel like. It can be an hobby or you can engage yourself with calls, social media. Make sure that you are around other people because it will make you feel less depressed. - Get on a better sleep schedule by learning healthy sleep habit. - Practice a relaxation techniques-It can help relieve symptoms of depression, reduce stress, and boost fee...

  1. Redefine marriage:    Begin to see marriage as an act: “Mar ‘D’ Rage”. . Consider that the word “mar” means to spoil or render less useful.Anger is a weapon that can either be channeled negatively or positively. However, when it comes to a serious or marriage relationship you must consciously bring your anger under control or better still, destroy your anger, otherwise it will destroy your marriage. Surrender your rage because no one benefits from the effects of anger. Your spouse will get on your nerves many times, learn to “Mar the Rage” before the rage renders your marriage useless. 2. Establish a true acceptance of our parents and of their relationships.   Some of us were blessed enough to have parents with a very strong and loving relationship. Others were not so lucky. Before getting married, leaving behind any resentment and negativity you feel about your parents’ marriage is really important. Your marriage never has to be your p...

People,even though they are in a relationship, are different from each other whether we care to admit or not. Ironically, this becomes apparent as soon as they fall for each other. If you ask the average person what breaks relationships apart, he or she might say money, lying or cheating. And that is true. But like death by a thousand paper cuts, there are even more insidious everyday habits that kill relationships too. To create a truly happy, healthy relationship, every couple, of every stripe, should take the most overlooked and under-discussed relationship killers to heart. HERE ARE SOME RELATIONSHIP KILLERS YOU SHOULD AVOID   Communication The life blood of every relationship is communication. What is communication? It is a process of sharing yourself verbally and non-verbally with another person in such a way that both of you understand and accept what you said. Communication struggles seems to be the #1 issue couples face, and it can definit...

  How amazing would it be to find the perfect partner to spend your life with (or at least a long while), in absolute bliss? It’s not going to happen by some movie-moment magical events, so let me show you how you can take your love life into your own hands. A well-matched partner won't meet all of your needs. As there's no such thing as a perfect partner, you're shooting for about 85%.  This means that you may meet someone who ticks all the boxes except physically he's not quite what you imagined.  That's OK. As a product of this culture, you probably have a warped definition of attraction that could use some redefining anyway. Likewise, she may not be as socially adapt as you had imagined.  My point is that these aren't deal breakers, so while you're creating your vision list, it's absolutely essential to know that your future partner won't meet all of your desires and that you'll have to sacrifice somewhere.  ...

Has your partner suddenly turned taciturn? Here’s expert advice so you can rekindle your bond and understand what goes on in their mind. Do you sometimes feel that your partner has emotionally shut down? That the communication gap between you two is only growing by the day? This is usually the case when one partner can’t relate with oneself or the relationship anymore, as they are of the belief that the bond has run its course. Does that really mean the end? Here’s what relationship experts Shivani Misri Sadhoo, Pulkit Sharma and psychoanalyst Dr. Petra Muller have to share with you, so you can communicate better with your partner. Stop chasing them   If your partner becomes unavailable, your primary reaction is to chase them to open up. This approach can be counter-productive, as it can drive the partner away. Be patient; give them their space and time to feel that they’re ready to share their inner thoughts and feelings. Calm down Giving space needs ...

Popular Nigerian relationship expert, Joro Olumofi, has shared qualities of a wife material on his Instagram page.   According to him, for men looking for wives, a lady must have 20 of these 24 qualities. Since the development, women have evaded his page with comments. While some think the list is fair, others question certain things he puts on the list. Here are the 24 qualities: 1.She attends church every Sunday & also mid week service 2.Offers to pay the bills on a date, pays her own transport fare  3.Being a virgin doesn’t matter but at least 5 Body Count. 4️.She should be able to pray for at least 45 minutes straight and fasts at least 3 times a month 5️.Any lady who doesn’t care if you live on the mainland or island ( she loves you in Egbeda, Mowe,Orile ) 6️. She is not suffering from Aso Ebi syndrome I.e ( she can do without buying Aso Ebi for 5 months ) 7️.Social media follower ship / Validation means nothing to her 8️. She ...

Nobody ever wants to be cheated on. It is probably one of the worst feelings in the world to find out that the person you are with is also with a million other people. You think that everything in the relationship is perfect, but then one day you see he’s tagged in a photo with some other girl that isn’t you (WHAT!). Talk about a slap in the face. Instead of getting to the point where you have to find out in probably one of the worst ways or someone you both know decides to approach you, it’s better to look out for these signs. If you have a feeling your man is cheating (which you’re usually right), then you should think back on everything and see if he has given you any of these signs. He’s spoiling you Now, do not get me wrong, it is nice to be with someone who wants to spoil you and do nice things for you, but if he is doing it for the wrong reasons, it is time to re-evaluate the situation. If you have been with him for a long time and all of a sudden he start...